Author: Don Shetterly

The Pity Mistake In 5 Forms
So many times I hear the phrase "I pity you", in one form or another, for the trauma and abuse I suffered. It really is demeaning, if you ask me [...]

What Is Authentic Love In 2021?
While everyone seems to be an expert from the looks of society, I don't think anyone understands what is authentic love. Sure, we give lip servi [...]

Insane Opinions – It’s My Way Or The Highway
We all have opinions in life, some of which matter while others don't. If we force our opinions and beliefs on everyone else without allowing som [...]

My Dental Anxiety Challenge Of 2020
Who knew that in addition to the pandemic taking place, 2020 would be the year I'd be facing a dental anxiety challenge? I'm writing this ahead [...]

In 2021 – Do You Practice Deceptive Awareness?
My question to you is "do you practice deceptive awareness?" We all like to think we know more than we do and behave better than our actions s [...]

5 Ways “Man Up” Is Deceptive
I get so tired of seeing the ways men do the "man up" part of life. It really is sickening to me, especially since I am a man. Yet I think that [...]

In 2021 – Stop The Obsession
I hope in 2021, we can begin to dig out of survival mode and stop the obsession I've been seeing. At least that's my hope as I write this blog p [...]

Admit It, Are We Human?
Are we human? I'm not so sure anymore. These days I see so many people acting as if they are the only ones that matter in this world. I s [...]

Unbelievable And Impossible Courage in 2020
Unbelievable courage - I know, it feels impossible most of the time. I'm not sure where I get it, especially in the face of the odds against me. [...]

Shaming Others For Reaching Out?
I'm always perplexed when I see responses to people reaching out for help. If someone gets the courage to reach out, they are often torpedoed an [...]